So masa dalam kereta tuh, ada so so sooo many thing that we discussed and we even argued...i memang tak selalu satisfied dengan point dia..you know la, sometimes men talk rubbish..i debate dengan dia sampai tertinggi suara nak pertahankan pendapat..and ada part yang sampai kami tergelak gelak sebab tetiba rasa idea dua dua orang mcm bodoh and ada few moment yang both of us were in silent mode sebab dah bengang tahap cipan..
I'm not sure how suddenly we were discussing about men and women stuff..i start dulu kot..i asked him, why did men like someone yang menutup aurat, yang sgt baik tutur kata, someone yang sgt la typical malay dulu kala, lemah lembur and most importantly, yang cantik rupa paras..i tak puas hati because i'm so not in the range of last mentioned criteria..i am not fully covered, sometimes i cakap kasar, sometimes i gelak guling guling(bukan gelak sipu sipu) , and most importantly, i tak la cantik pun..then dia pun keluarkan dalil di bawah..
"Wanita dikahwini kerana empat hal: Kerana hartanya, kerana keturunannya, kerana kecantikannya, dan kerana agamanya. Maka hendaklah kamu pilih kerana agamanya, sebab kalau tidak demikian, nescaya kamu akan celaka”. (Hadith Shahih Riwayat Bukhari 6:123, Muslim 4:175).
I terdiam and got nothing to say but something to shout! aha..bukan i nak lawan apa yang dah memang termaktub, seriously..but i hate it when orang yang bercakap mcm tak perasan yang diri tuh mcm mana! hahahaha...sorry bro..i ter-off my limit sikit malam nih..tensi! you know that pasangan yang baik untuk lelaki yang baik dan sebaliknya..even you mentioned this to me for soooo many time but then, look carefully at those 4 points in the hadith...especially the last point..does it resemble what you got in you? Does it actually portray you?
I tak kisah because i know that this is some men's personal preferences but think hard before you deliver the hadith boleh kot, kan? for the sake of sharing your point of view? hmm, maybe acceptable..i terima but i confused sebab you guys nak yang baik, but you sendiri truly tak baik..you guys nak yang cantik tapi you sendiri pun muka mcm padayappa! you nak yang baik tutur kata? you sendiri pun mencarut bagai...does that make sense? hmm..think again..
What if both of us try to become someone better from tonight onwards..to become someone yang fulfill the above mentioned criteria..so that kalau you nak demand pun tak pe la..you memang deserve it..alright? ---till then--
p/s: this post bukan nak attack kawan i yang dalam kereta tadi..dia tuh memang baik and alim i would say..this is just in general..because situasi kat atas tuh dah selalu sgt berlaku kat i, so i pun terpanggil untuk write about it..kesian dia..mcm orang salah pulak..
